Books

Take a look below at a few books I recommend. These books can in part, help to equip you to face the challenges you experience and impasses you discover as you pursue relationships.

Relationships

by Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott

Today more than ever, people long for connection. Relationships is an honest and timely guide to forming the rich relationships that are life's greatest treasure. Heading below the surface to the depths of human interactions, relationship experts Les and Leslie Parrott show how to make bad relationships better and good relationships great. Here are the tools you need to handle tough times and to really succeed at forging strong, rewarding relationships with friends, with the opposite sex, with family, and with God. This cutting-edge book will help you understand * Who you are and what you bring to your relationships * How your family of origin shapes the way you relate to others * How to bridge the gender gap and learn the language of the opposite sex * Tips for building friendships that last * Secrets to finding the love you long for and to handling sexual issues ( How to handle failed friendships and breakups without falling apart * How to relate to God without feeling phony In a high-tech world, Relationships offers a high-touch solution to a better life.

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The 5 Love Languages

by Gary Chapman

This simple concept can revolutionize all your relationships!

"Nothing has more potential for enhancing one's sense of well-being than effectively loving and being loved. This book is designed to help you do both of these things effectively." -Gary Chapman

With more than 10 million copies sold, The 5 Love Languages® continues to strengthen relationships worldwide. Although originally crafted with married couples in mind, the love languages have proven themselves to be universal, whether in dating relationships or with parent, coworker, or friend relationships.

The premise is simple: Different people with different personalities express love in different ways. Therefore, if you want to give and receive love most effectively, you've got to learn to speak the right language.

The 5 Love Languages® Singles Edition will help you . . .

  • Discover the missing ingredient in past relationships
  • Learn how to communicate love in a way that can transform any relationship
  • Grow closer to the people you care about the most
  • Understand why you may not feel loved by those who genuinely care about you
  • Gain the courage to deeply express your emotions and affection to others

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How People Grow

by Dr. Henry Cloud & Dr. John Townsend

All growth is spiritual growth. Authors Drs. Cloud and Townsend unlock age-old keys to growth from Scripture to help people resolve issues of relationships, maturity, emotional problems, and overall spiritual growth. They shatter popular misconceptions about how God operates and show that growth is not about self-actualization, but about God’s sanctification. In this theological foundation to their best-selling book Boundaries, they discuss: •?What the essential processes are that make people grow •?How those processes fit into a biblical understanding of spiritual growth and theology •?How spiritual growth and real-life issues are one and the same •?What the responsibilities are of pastors, counselors, and others who assist people in growing―and what your own responsibilities are in your personal growth

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The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work

by John Gottman, PH.D. & Nan Silver

With more than a million copies sold worldwide, The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work has revolutionized the way we understand, repair, and strengthen marriages. John Gottman's unprecedented study of couples over a period of years has allowed him to observe the habits that can make—and break—a marriage. Here is the culmination of that work: the seven principles that guide couples on a path toward a harmonious and long-lasting relationship. Straightforward yet profound, these principles teach partners new approaches for resolving conflicts, creating new common ground, and achieving greater levels of intimacy. Gottman offers strategies and resources to help couples collaborate more effectively to resolve any problem, whether dealing with issues related to sex, money, religion, work, family, or anything else.

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9 Things to Do When Someone Has Hurt You

Originally posted on Psychology Today, February 2, 2016 Being able to put your past abuse into perspective doesn’t mean …

The 3 Keys to a Happier Relationship

It’s never easy, but it’s less complicated than you think.  Originally posted on Psychology Today, Jan 20, 2015 …

You Matter…

Ever felt like someone was more important than you, like if you were in a line-up you would be chosen last or maybe not even …